Relationship Problems – What Can You Do?
If you have relationship problems, you’ve come to the right place! My names Ed Fisher and I, too, was having terrible relationship problems with my wife, Allison, recently. If you click this link you can read my story and see how you can save your relationship or save your marriage. I managed to turn my marriage around and I’ve become something of a relationship expert in the process. Relationships fall apart for lots of reasons including affairs, fighting over little things, lack of sex, or even just the feeling that you are growing apart and no longer feel like you are “in love.” No matter what the problem is, the good news is that there is a solution. Breaking up a long term relationship (or marriage) is a terrible thing, no matter how attractive it might currently seem to you or your partner. You should do everything you can to save your relationship.
A few months ago, one of my wife’s co-workers had his wife leave him. She was having an affair, for whatever reason, and the husband moved into his own apartment while his two young kids stayed with his wife. His mother sent him a long letter. You see, his own mother and father had divorced and remarried when he was a boy. In the letter the mother pleaded with him to do whatever it takes to salvage his marriage because 30 years later she still has not forgiven herself for letting her own marriage fail. She sometimes felt overwhelmed with guilt for breaking up her childrens’ home. She didn’t try hard enough when her marriage fell apart. How will this story end? I don’t know. But I’m sure that letter has made the husband wonder what he can change in himself to win back the love of his wife. If you aren’t married, the same message still applies if you have children.
The thing is, you and your partner are… human beings. Neither of you is perfect. Sometimes we have very high expectations for our partners and we have trouble accepting them for who they are. We see other people and fantasize that these new people would be a better match. But we picked our partners for a reason. More often than not, your partner is a great match for you and you for them. So, unless there is abuse in the relationship, it is worth fighting for.
But Ed, I want to Save My relationship! What Can I do? My partner has Already “checked out!”
If you haven’t already gotten a divorce (if you’re married), it’s not too late. And, oddly enough, it is very possible to save your relationship even if your partner is not interested in trying. Here’s the thing – you need help. Professional help. You will never find what you need by reading articles on the internet. Most articles are written by people out to make a quick buck or by people who think they know everything but they really don’t. In short, a lot of what you read on the internet is Dangerous to your relationship! For example, I have seen a product aimed at people in troubled relationships that is based upon the idea that you should make your partner jealous as a way of igniting their passion for you. Well, my friends, games like that are best left in high school. If you try to make your partner jealous by manipulating them, you will drive them further away, guaranteed.
But… There are people out there who can help you. I have collected a whole bunch of fantastic articles by the best in the business and put them into an email series that I will give you for free. Just sign up with the form on the right to start reading priceless advice. I’m not going to spam you, don’t worry.
What about Marriage Counseling?
A lot of people believe in marriage counseling but there are huge pitfalls. Unfortunately, most marriage counselors are not trained to deal with couples. They are trained to do individual therapy and add marriage counseling to their practice to “drum up more business.” The problem is that what works for individuals – “letting it all hang out,” basically, is a disaster for couples. If you and your partner share too much of what is bothering you in your relationship, you will drive them further away. This is one of the reasons that marriage counseling fails most of the time and ends up wasting a ton of time and money.
The truth is that there are products on the market, easily available, that can help you to solve your relationship problems on your own. They work because most couples have the exact same problems and there are tried, tested, and proven ways of solving these problems. I suggest you read my reviews of these products – Look to the right for links – and decide if one or more of them is right for you. They cost a fraction of what marriage counseling costs and at the very least they can be used to prepare you for marriage counseling so that you can make the most of your sessions.
Can I really Save My Relationship by myself?
Yes. But please, sign up for the free email series. It is worth a million bucks. You’ll see! Do everything you can to save your relationship, because it is worth it. Read the reviews of the products I recommend. They are great and helped me and they can help you. I wish you good luck. You are doing the right thing. In this day and age, too many people break up or divorce without really thinking about how much harm divorce does to everyone – themselves included.